Jensen in Atlanta wants to know:
My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about two years. We were casual at first, but became an official couple about 3 months ago. We’re still figuring out the relationship, but there are a few things worrying me already. He hasn’t asked me to meet his family and he keeps putting off planning a vacation “with” me! He says it’s all a time issue right now, but he did just go on a weekend trip with his buddies. Are these red flags? Can a casual fling really turn into a real relationship?